handling dominant pple....having complaints, nonsense and the what-nots raining down incessently, what can instantly appease them?
letting down pride and adopting a non-confrontational stance is one way to ease the tension.
i can never understand how their minds are wired. they like to be on top and be empowered, towering over others and in the process make others insignificant. it doesn't hurt just to reaffirm them and pretend to be siding with them.
i'm not interested to change them. being task oriented, i like to work around the problem just making sure that my objective is met, never too bothered about who's in the wrong. sweeping things under the carpet till the whole issue blows up again... well, i can only manage this way given the shortage of time and the urgency to get things done.
there are so many interests to take care of - stakeholders, bystanders and the executers....
this is a totally different ball game - too many opinions over a single issue. the need to ensure no one is left out is draining and delays the progress unnecessarily.
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