Am i a bean counter?

someone asked why i was so offended when it was apparent that it was hard to please everyone in the group.

i guess it boils down to the fact that the process by which it was carried out goes against my basic core value of 'respect'.

a decision had been made and the underlying message was that i was of least importance. no proper communication prior to the official annoucement shows the acute lack of sensitivity on the part of the decision maker.

i'm not aggressive hence i won't confront. how to do i get the msg across that i'm not happy with U? perhaps a repeat episode of this will embolden me to do talk it out. afterall, clearing up the air will pave the way for a smoother relationship ahead.